It is very important to always hang in there. There will be times when you want to throw in the towel. This is a time when you want to think about how it was years ago, how every many it was. Bring back to mind the fun, the joy, the satisfaction you had with your spouse. When you do this it will give you the desire and determination to not give up. I think it’s also important to remember tomorrow is another day. And changes are made day by day so don’t ever give up, keep moving on toward a better, improved marriage.